Best Things to say on a First Date
#15 “Thanks For A Nice Time”
Make sure to thank them for the nice time together, even if you didn’t really have a great time. If it wasn’t a good fit, don’t feel like you have to make a connection at the end of the night. It’s okay to just walk away if you’re not interested, just make sure to be polite about it and wish them well.
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“Thanks For A Nice Time”
Make sure to thank them for the nice time together, even if you didn’t really have a great time. If it wasn’t a good fit, don’t feel like you have to make a connection at the end of the night. It’s okay to just walk away if you’re not interested, just make sure to be polite about it and wish them well.
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"When Can We Do This Again?"
If you want to have a second date, there’s no reason to hide it. Be bold and just tell them straight up that you want to see them again. See what they have to say about it and go from there.
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"Where To?"
Some of the best dates are ones that aren't completely planned. Have a set of destinations to choose from and then let your date choose where you'll go.
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"Life Is Too Short"
No one wants to walk away from a first date feeling like they’re going to cry themselves to sleep. This is not the time to bring up your sob stories about any area of life. Keep it positive! Remember that! Even if the conversation goes to a bad memory, figure out a way to put a positive spin on it.
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"I Hope This A Great First Date"
You need to make sure your date knows that you’re confident. Nothing says “insecure” like someone that’s trying to see how they measure up to past relationships and dates so if you want to know how you're doing on this one, tell them you hope it's going well.
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"I Really Like You"
Remember when you were a kid and when you liked someone you would tell them? It's the same thing here. No one likes mind games so if you really like your date, let them know.
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"Shall We Dance?"
If you’re at a place where dancing is appropriate, you should try it out. It might seem a little silly but being spontaneous is worth it!
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“Let Me Get That For You”
If you’re a guy, you should not be making your date open the door or pay for the date. It may seem a little old-fashioned but she will really appreciate it.
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"You're So Interesting"
Just like it’s bad to do all the talking, it’s bad to not listen to what is being said. Pay attention to what they’re saying and have something to say in response.
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"Do You Go To School?"
This is a safe, simple question to ask during a date. Since college age now lasts from late teens until the grave, they will probably be able to tell you about the school they attend, have attended or wish to attend.
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“Do You Like To Cook?”
This is just a backwards way of figuring out where you’d go on your next date. If they love to cook, then they may end up wanting to cook for you on one of your future dates. If they don’t, you may be able to surprise them by cooking for them or just finding out their favorite restaurant and food.
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“You Look Great”
This is one of those universal things that you want to say no matter how they actually look. Naturally, they will have put some effort into their appearance for the date so make sure they know you noticed and appreciate that.
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“Have You Ever Been There?”
Bring up interesting places throughout your conversation that you’re thinking would make a great date in the future. Don’t tell them you’re thinking of taking them but find out if they’ve ever been there or if they’d be interested.
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"Have You Ever Done This Before?"
Chances are that the place you’re going on a first date is something that the other person has done before but there’s always the chance that it’s somewhere they’ve never been before. Take interest in that, it will mean something to them.
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“What Do You Like To Do?”
Learn their interests, their likes and dislikes and figure out what you have in common. This could be a good way to see how you’ll connect long term and if a second date would be worth your time or theirs.
