15 Things she wishes you knew
#15 She Wants Honesty
Don’t play mind games with her. No one likes to think that they’re in one kind of relationship only to find out that they’re involved with something else. Make your feelings known and don’t pretend to be someone you’re not just because you’re trying to spare hers.
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She Wants Honesty
Don’t play mind games with her. No one likes to think that they’re in one kind of relationship only to find out that they’re involved with something else. Make your feelings known and don’t pretend to be someone you’re not just because you’re trying to spare hers.
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It's The Little Things
You don’t have to do some huge romantic thing to win her heart. For every grand display of affection you give, it’s always the dozens of little things you do each day that mean the most to her. Things like remembering her favorite kind of coffee or texting her “good morning” will speak greater volumes than a box of chocolate and a bouquet of roses.
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She wants your attention.
This is a huge deal! Women like to communicate, they like to talk and when they get vulnerable enough to share their feelings with you, you’d better cherish it! It doesn’t matter how important the information was, just that you remembered it. If she says she doesn’t like going to her yoga class anymore, it will mean the world to her if you remember the reason she explained.
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She Wants Romance
Even though it’s the little things in life that can really make a girl happy, that doesn’t mean you should give up on romance. Take her out to dinner, buy her flowers, set up a picnic under the stars. Do something special for her that you wouldn’t do for anybody else and you’ll make her feel like she’s the only girl in the world.
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Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Be a person of your word but don’t forget that there is more to life than the things coming out of your mouth. Let her know that she can trust you by being someone that is honest, hardworking, compassionate and dedicated. If you’ve got those four things down, you’re ahead of the game!
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She Wants To Be Encouraged
Women can do anything they put their minds to. They are powerful, tough and make a huge difference in the world! But sometimes they forget that. Remind her how great she is and encourage her every day by telling her that she’s doing amazing things.
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She's Doing The Best She Can
It’s not easy being a woman. All the ladies out there are doing the best they can. Remember that and try not to be so hard on her. If you treat her with compassion and understanding you’ll bring out the best in her and yourself.
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She Is Not Like Your Ex
She is not the same person you dated before. She is not like the one you dated before that either. In fact, she is not like anyone else because she is an individual. She’s not like your mom, aunt or great-grandma. She is her own person so treat her that way and stop trying to measure her to the other ladies from your life because that’s not fair to her or anyone else.
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Chivalry Is Wonderful
A lot of people think that holding the door is an overrated thing of the past. Some women will even talk about how they don’t want someone to hold the door open for them, but deep down, everyone thinks that’s a nice thing to do. You’ll get major points for doing it because it shows that you care about and respect her.
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Tell Her She's Beautiful
You can’t say those words enough. Tell her she’s beautiful at least once a day. Even if her hair’s a mess and she has the flu, it will mean something to her to know that you still find her attractive.
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She Wants You To Be Happy
You take so much time to make sure she’s happy that you might leave yourself out sometimes. Remember that any great relationship involves both parties being happy. If you’re happy, it will be easier for her to be happy.
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She Doesn't Mean To Get Upset
Cut your girl some slack when she gets upset. Life can be really stressful and at times, emotions can get the best of anybody. Let her know that you understand when she’s just having a bad day (but make sure to watch out if she always seems to take out her problems on you. That could be a bad sign)
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She Wants To Be Challenged
It’s nice to have it easy and everyone wants to know that they’re doing a great job but sometimes it’s even nicer to know that you worked for something. If she has a habit that she’s trying to break then challenge her to do it and help her. If she wants to be better at something then help her take the steps to do that.
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Sometimes She Needs A Hug
When the weight of the world is on her shoulders, it is a good time to feel safe, protected and loved. Give her a hug when she needs it and just hold her tight until she knows that you will get through it together.
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Sometimes She's Not Sure
Remember that ‘no’ always means no but sometimes a ‘yes’ can really mean no, too. Learn how to read her and make sure that she is not agreeing to anything that she is not actually comfortable with. If she makes a decision that she is not sure about, call her out on it and wait patiently until she comes to a real decision.
